Please help me , please help , Please remove my confusions.?

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Please help me , please help , Please remove my confusions.?
i am male, i live in Pakistan, i liked one girl in the college, i sincerely loved her and still i love, and as the day passes my love is getting stronger about her,i started to care her, even i started to care her little things, i become so polite, loving and humble and respecting with her. Whenever any boy tease her, i defend her.

but then she become disattracted with me and started to run away with me, giving no importance to me in any way. and tried to remain reserve from me, but i kept my behaviour with her decent and polite as i love her sincerely and honestly. however when i felt that her behaviour is too much insulting and running away from me,

she has two friends besides me, i informed her two friends that i love her alot and you both please informe her about me that i love her as i could not express or tell her it myself, because i am not too much courageous to express her my love.

they both informed her that i like her, she became too much angry, aggressive and arrogant with me and wanted to come to me at that time to insult me but both friend stop her at that time! they both said you should not go there to insult me, and they both make her calm and cool

then both informed me that she did not like you at all. and she wanted to insult you but we are stopping her.

PLEASE NOTE THAT then her female friend tell me that she likes her own cousin who is abroad and he does not like her.

then i became too much hurted , even at many nights i could not sleep due to pain in my brain due to tensions of lossing her,

then i became totally reserved to her. i never see at her face, i never talk to her.

then after two or three weeks she invited me in the canteen of college with the help of her two friend, there were four people in the canteen , her two friends , me and she herself.
she told me that i like my own cousin and i will see or arrange another cute girl for you. and i respected you too much. i said please do not arrange or see any girl for me, i just liked you and just you, i am not interested in any girl, only my education is first priority for me. she said i respect you and i can not be your lover but we are friends.


then again i became totally reserved to her. i never see at her face, i never talk to her.

i started to do not give any attention to her! dont talk, dont see at her face, i pretended to remain reserve to her as much as i can do. then she also become reserve from me, but after six months she started to talk to me now herself, i do not started to talk her, she is now always praise my assignments, she is always supporting my assignments which are even not able to praise, she helped me in the class that how one assignment would be done when my teacher was insulting me alot!

she always try to talk to me when there is no one around us in the college. when we both get close to each other accidently or unaccidently she must talk to me , she has even started to care about little things about me which i told her.

before the time when i propose or informe her that i like her, she never care about little things of me , but now she cares, she keep in her mind my little facts also

it comes to know to me that her cousin live abroad dont interested in her.


now please tell me what is mean by this?
Please help.
thanks.

Answer 1

Continue being patient and just see where things go. It sounds like over time you have won the affections of this young lady. She seems interested. Probably because you were a gentleman and left her alone when she said she was not interested in you before. If I were you I would continue to talk to her and be her friend. Friendship often leads to romance. However if she is just playing games and starts to act like she does not care about you again then you have to walk away. You deserve a woman who loves you as much as you love them. Possibly this is the girl, but take it slow. See if she wants to go somewhere with you. I'm in the United States so I am not familiar with what is popular in Pakistan. Are you able to ask her out to dinner or maybe a movie? Keep it simple. Spend some time with her and see where it leads. In time you can ask her how she feels about you but for now just be her friend and get to know her more. Good luck!

Answer 2

Look someplace else, she isn't a well alternative. She is just too burdened and her feelings aren't constant. When you deal with anyone they do not behave in the best way you have got defined. She could be a intricate individual while she handiest likes you while you do not like her. Think approximately being married to anyone like that, you could not ever recognize what you could come residence to, and it could make lifestyles very unsatisfied for you. She could also be your old flame, however do not allow her be your lifestyles's love, you want a steadier, extra in charge and loving individual to spend your lifestyles with.

Answer 3

the girl wises to be your friend is what, you must either accept that your relationship will be as a friend or leave this Girl alone, I was my wife's friend before we became lovers just be a friend to her and see what happens or leave her alone if you feel you can't just be a friend.